An affair is the involvement of two people who engage in an extra marital affair that involves sex and the feeling of love outside marriage.
1. Affairs always start as friendship – Normally a simple friendship between a male and a female.
2. Conversations are the drawing point – The things discussed could be enticing and engagingly interesting and would be yearned for more often.
3. If someone outside your marriage meets one of your emotional needs – we tend to look to others to fill in the emotional needs we do not get from our partners especially attention.
4. If the supposed friend is so concerned about your well being – if there is no balance between what the spouse does for the partner and what the friend does but the friend gets the upper hand in showing that much care and concern about someone else’s spouse it could generate into an affair.