Few weeks ago, I was called to see a patient, without delay I rushed down the stairs and headed to the hospital wards. The man was sitting in the back seat of the car that brought him, I watched closely and there was no respiratory efforts.
I went through the drugs, I was able to identify some and they included digoxin, Viagra, lisinopril. I concluded the young man was in his late 40s “DIED IN ACTIVE SERVICE TO THE WIFE” from heart attack.
Every responsible man wants to satisfy his family and wife in terms of providing for their basic needs and also in bed. But doing this at the expense of the man’s life is what I want to condemn.
It is a common experience these days that women openly talk about how bad their spouses are in bed, and most times the woman makes life difficult for the man by throwing abusive words at him. It is also common to see a lot of products being advertised and marketed for being enhancement of male sexual performance.
A lot of women are responsible for their husband’s death because of their excessive demands for sexual satisfaction!
And in the bid to satisfy the woman the man take drugs that endanger his health. And I ask “is sexual satisfaction the bases of marriage?” Sometimes the women even ask for a bigger penis and my fellow man will be taking all sorts of drugs just to enlarge his penis. This is just mocking God who created you.
At the end he dies SATISFYING A WOMAN. Why not ask the woman to reduce her vagina to size you instead?
A man’s sexual performance depend on a lot of factors, such as stress, diet, medical conditions such as diabetes, drugs such as antihypertensive, relationship problems and many more.
How do you expect a man who you nag, starve, embarrass on the streets, who you refuse to support financially, who sleeps for less than 3 hours in a day to satisfy you sexually?
Most times women threaten to go outside for the so called satisfaction and you will be struggling to take higher doses of the drugs to satisfy her. That woman you want to satisfy at the expense of your own life started having sex before the age of 12years until age of 25yrs or more when she got married. Before this time she has experimented widely with men of different energy capacity.
Unfortunately she’s married to a man with lower sex capacity and she’s already addicted to sex from an early age.
How can an average man cope!
Don’t die in active service, don’t die trying to satisfy a woman sexually. Just do what you can do and leave the rest to God. If you die trying to satisfy a woman definitely after your burial men will come and continue from where you stopped.
Our dear wives and girlfriends, we are begging you to help us live longer. Help us financially, encourage us to do more and definitely not nagging.
Feed us well, give us peace of mind, allow us sleep at night, understand our health challenges, understand the side effects of drugs we are on, protect our weaknesses, and pray for us. Then we will live longer for you and your children. Our performances then will improve.
Do not harm yourself in any way trying to prove you are a man. 7-13 mins is OK, if you can go higher better and do not take drugs that will damage your heart. Many have died trying to satisfy women. THEY DIED IN ACTIVE SERVICE.