Proverbs 31:10 – An excellent wife who can find? for her worth is far above jewels.
God placed this excellent wife in this verse to show the importance of building your marriage.
In taking this big step to being an excellent wife,other areas of your life needs to be organized. You need to become more focused. You need to set practical goals.
Try to learn to take one thing at a time and do not try to everything at once.
It is important to learn to communicate with your husband and be available day and night. By setting goals, you will be striving toward something instead of heading toward everything at once.
Be sure to remember your worth because who you are in the eyes of the Lord is never measured by what you do.
Proverbs 31:11-12- her husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value. She brings him good ,not harm,all the days of her life.
Her husband trusts she will feed the children well,keep up their home and be there for him in attitude and action.
When the Proverbs 31 woman says she will do something,she does it because her husband’s comfort,success and joy is her delight.
Points to note:
1. Keep a right attitude
2. Take time to listen
3. Be an encourager
4. Focus on his good points
5. Do practical things for your husband
6. Let your husband be your best friend
7. Play with your husband, be sure to find activities you both like to do. Proverbs 31:10 sets the tone for all the rest of that chapter of Proverbs.
How you see yourself as a wife will influence how you see yourself as a mother and a house manager.
An excellent wife finds that the reduced stress gives her a boost toward organizing the rest of her home and life.